And you said you've been over there for two months? That's way too many first dates. Where are you meeting these girls? Are they all Thai or do you have some expats mixed in that 12? Unless these girls are all bailing on you...and wouldn't accept 2nd dates with you.....which of course you probably wouldn't admit is happening on here if that was the case....... But if it's you just moving on that quick.......you gotta stick in longer than that.....your standard to want to take a girl out on a 2nd date shouldn't be that high. If you even like 1 thing about them after that first date, it's probably worth seeing what happens once you warm to each other a little.