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I'm moving to Bkk in 2 years, no use finding someone in NZ who wouldn't want to re-locate ...

why are you moving there? Sounds dope, btw. It also sounds like I'd have a helluva lot more fun there than you. But, still, cool, braugh.
 
I'm moving to Bkk in 2 years, no use finding someone in NZ who wouldn't want to re-locate ...

Dude. You've got the whole concept wrong.
There's only one person in this life you choose.
You don't choose your kids, don't choose your parents.. Only choose your spouse.

Maybe a Russian is what you need.
 
I hate to go full Yoda on ya.. but I don't believe in finding true love when you're in pursuit of it.
Let it go. And let it show up unexpectedly.

I lack the experience of some of y'all in this front, but this is the truest ****. I don't think I know anyone who's ended up with a super super successful relationship after being in a consuming pursuit of one.

Partnership is so fulfilling, I understand your anxiety in wanting to find your S.O.-- but please don't let your life be defined by this. Find other ways to nourish and fulfill yourself outside of your work and family life. What you'll notice is that as you build these other aspects of your life, newer social circles will emerge in areas of interest. As this happens, you'll see that you'll start meeting new people.

I'll let you extrapolate the rest. Best of luck.
 
I went to the dentist last week, he said I had a really healthy teeth. No rotten tooth. She just cleaned out the plaque and it was good as new.

I went an took a dump on my neighbors porch because she lets her bitch diddle on my lawn.
Should have got a bag an started it on fire
 
Interestingly enough, I met my wife when I had plans to move to New Zealand for work and stay there for a couple years. I started dating her and everything changed.

That was 10 years ago this week.
 
I've dated over 12 women on this trip... seen them all.. pretty but stuck up ones... not so pretty but super attentive ones... too young... too old... , ... still nobody I really want to get serious with.

And you said you've been over there for two months? That's way too many first dates. Where are you meeting these girls? Are they all Thai or do you have some expats mixed in that 12? Unless these girls are all bailing on you...and wouldn't accept 2nd dates with you.....which of course you probably wouldn't admit is happening on here if that was the case....... But if it's you just moving on that quick.......you gotta stick in longer than that.....your standard to want to take a girl out on a 2nd date shouldn't be that high. If you even like 1 thing about them after that first date, it's probably worth seeing what happens once you warm to each other a little.
 
And you said you've been over there for two months? That's way too many first dates. Where are you meeting these girls? Are they all Thai or do you have some expats mixed in that 12? Unless these girls are all bailing on you...and wouldn't accept 2nd dates with you.....which of course you probably wouldn't admit is happening on here if that was the case....... But if it's you just moving on that quick.......you gotta stick in longer than that.....your standard to want to take a girl out on a 2nd date shouldn't be that high. If you even like 1 thing about them after that first date, it's probably worth seeing what happens once you warm to each other a little.
Plus just having a person to go do something with.
 
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