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Retirement - when is it time?

Can you elaborate more? Why they regretted it?

I speak with new retirees at a constant pace. At least a dozen per week. Something I have seen the majority of people struggle with is they have gone from a life of purpose and structure to nothing. They are not prepared for the mental blow and subconsciously they get depressed and lonely. After that they tank fast in overall health.

You need to replace the sense of purpose and social interaction you get from work with something.

Stoked's answer pretty much covers it.
 
Retirement doesn't have to mean quitting work. There are a lot of things I would like to do that could be considered menial labor. I would like to be a waiter for a while, a bar tender (hopefully on a cruise ship), work at a gas station for 6 months, drive a bread truck, become a stewardess and fly multi-nationally, work for a river rafting expedition company [MENTION=2036]b_line[/MENTION], manage a state, county or Forest Service park, work at a boat shop again as a mechanic and sales person, get on a fire fighting crew, work in a brewery, become a train operator for UTA...

This all sounds good, but the reality tends to be different. Everyone I know that retired early said similar things (well, maybe not quite as many dreams as you have), but life happens and gets in the way. For example, that is the time that you start having to deal with aging parents, you start having medical issues of your own, your children and grandchildren often need you to bail them out of their bad choices/circumstances, financial market fluctuations, etc. There are a multitude of reasons that the big plans of the young do not happen when you get older. All I know is what people have told me, and that is not to retire too young or you will regret it.

I certainly commend all of you who do what they can to save and to stay healthy. Don't put either of them off. You get old faster than you can imagine.
 
About SS, I'm 40 right now. When can I start collecting the max amount available to me and about how much do you predict that to be? Does it depend entirely on how many years I have worked and at what salary?

I'm 46 and just coincidentally looked into this a few days ago. The regular amount starts at age 67 (used to be 65), and the max amount is age 70. And I think the minimum age you can start collecting is age 62, but it's at a reduced rate. How much you get does depend on how much you've paid into the system (both in terms of number of years, and in terms of annual salary). Here's a calculator you can use: https://www.ssa.gov/oact/quickcalc/.
 
This all sounds good, but the reality tends to be different. Everyone I know that retired early said similar things (well, maybe not quite as many dreams as you have), but life happens and gets in the way. For example, that is the time that you start having to deal with aging parents, you start having medical issues of your own, your children and grandchildren often need you to bail them out of their bad choices/circumstances, financial market fluctuations, etc. There are a multitude of reasons that the big plans of the young do not happen when you get older. All I know is what people have told me, and that is not to retire too young or you will regret it.

I certainly commend all of you who do what they can to save and to stay healthy. Don't put either of them off. You get old faster than you can imagine.

I'm on a pension so it makes little sense for me to continue working here any longer than I must. For one thing, my wife gets hardly anything if I die while working. OTOH, if I retire she will get a lifetime benefit. So I have a duty to retire ASAP, and at that point I probably won't be interested in another professional position but will continue working for health benefits if nothing else.

As far as unexpected expenses goes, we are currently on path to make as much in retirement as we do now but without a house payment. Anything we get from SS will be a complete boon. Any shock I would get in retirement would be no different than if I were still working in a profession.
 
of course it depends on each individual situation, but many people stay involved after official "retirement" by serving as consultants back to their original employer, or within the industry, or they serve on committees or IRB's or stay involved in their profession in some way


on a related note, here's another question to ponder - would you want to live in an "Active Adults" community or no?

I've know people who have done it and loved it, but others tried it and couldn't wait to get out. Personally, I like having a variety of ages around. Although I will say, since my next door neighbor appears to have moved out and left her home to her 28 year old son who's turned it into party central 7 nights-a-week, young adults have less appeal to me, at least those living next door to me.
 
I don't want to be in an adults community either. I want grandkids spending the weekend, family get togethers, the sound of kids and pets on the street...
 
We are a worn down nation who works too hard, and doesnt give its people enough benefits.

Social Security is the best thing we have for all, and it's constantly being attacked, and threatened.

Anyways, can I retire now? I'm ready to get a camper and travel europe until I pass.
 
That's very nice of you, I certainly won't be able to afford it or planning on that, unless I win lottery or something. Kids can get student loans and pay it off after graduating IMHO. The sooner they learn to stand on their own feet the better.

MVP - is it impossible to enter almost any good universtity in Canada without fee if you are clever enough i.e graduate high school/secondary school with the best grades and are otherwise talented enough? Of course, the parents must still provide general living expenses if needed.
 
MVP - is it impossible to enter almost any good universtity in Canada without fee if you are clever enough i.e graduate high school/secondary school with the best grades and are otherwise talented enough? Of course, the parents must still provide general living expenses if needed.

Like anything it depends. dalamon would be better person to answer this question as he just got accepted into medical school ( not sure if his parents are sponsoring him or he got student loan ). My daughter got accepted into athletic therapy program and her grades were certainly not the best and she is taking student loan.
 
Like anything it depends. dalamon would be better person to answer this question as he just got accepted into medical school ( not sure if his parents are sponsoring him or he got student loan ). My daughter got accepted into athletic therapy program and her grades were certainly not the best and she is taking student loan.

Whats the interest rate on student loans? Ours increase with CPI so my accountant has told me not to worry about paying them off in a hurry as its not a bad debt.
 
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