This is a pet peeve and a reverse pet peeve all in one.
Background info - I spent the weekend at the Shakespeare Festival in Cedar City. Due to my health issues, it isn't easy for me to get around much. Disabled parking makes my life a lot easier, as does walking with a cane due to my dizziness levels, and I handled the weekend better than I expected.
Pet peeve - I felt very conspicuous and embarrassed as many people would ask me if I needed help anytime I stopped to catch my breath or steady myself.
Reverse pet peeve - There are a lot of good people in the world who cared about whether I was okay and were willing to help.
On the whole, the reverse pet peeve wins.
Waking up to this![]()
When someone gives you an unexpected compliment.
I was in a room with several people on Tuesday and one of them said something nice about me out of the blue. It wasn't directed at me, but I'm sure he knew I could hear. Made me smile for the whole day.
I try to do this randomly with members of my management team in public moments. You get to see them brighten up and it really boosts morale.
When someone gives you an unexpected compliment.
I was in a room with several people on Tuesday and one of them said something nice about me out of the blue. It wasn't directed at me, but I'm sure he knew I could hear. Made me smile for the whole day.
I do the opposite, I like to say horrible things about people when i know they can hear me, really brings family gatherings together.