I've always felt physical punishment works until the kid is able to reason. At that point you can start effing with their minds and physical punishment becomes harmful to the relationship. By physical punishment I'm talking slap on the wrists or butt. Heck their diapers protect them anyway. It's more about the act versus any type of pain anyway.
Given all that, I can tell you as a high school teacher that kids need more fear of their parents. Not enough of that anymore.
Agreed.
Is it any surprise that it's MY generation that sunk the country into the biggest hole in nearly a century? Nope. I know, I know, "HEY YOU KIDS, GET OFF MY LAWN!", but seriously... If I brought a "C" home on a report card, I got the belt. If I talked back to my mom, I got the belt. We had a willow tree in our back yard and if you were bad, he'd say "Go cut a willow!" and you'd have to go out and choose your destiny: Thin ones leave a welt, thick ones leave a bruise. I was mortified of my father. Tell you what though, looking back, I'm glad he did it and it taught me more about life than I ever thought possible. Shoot, I'm still learning lessons from my old man on a regular basis. (mostly what NOT to do, but I wouldn't know if he hadn't done it -- see?) I really can't stand the fact that I sometimes act like my dad, and I know that I'm a little bit hard on my girls, but I truly believe that they will be better off in the long run.