LOL....
here's a perspective from the other side
a (relatively minor) peeve:
When I cook dinner and my husband comes home and decides he wants something else. Now that the kids are out of the house and it's just the two of us, I almost never cook, unless I've cleared it with him in the morning.
But there were many times, even when the kids were young, when I'd have something all prepared (or at least underway) and he'd come in, ask what's for dinner, express some disappointment at the answer, and suggest either going out or getting take-out. Typically it would occur when he'd get a craving for something in the middle of the day, and there'd be no talking him out of it.
He'd always say (whatever I was making): "That tastes better the next day anyhow"
After a while, I'd learn to watch for certain clues in the morning that might indicate that he already had something in mind for supper and call him at work in the middle of the day before I'd plan to start cooking. That didn't completely solve the issue, but it did help.
As far as house keeping goes, he does nothing. He did cut the grass when we first moved into the house but when the lawn mower went kaput, we hired a service. He's always been ok with our having a cleaning lady so that helps too. Plus he's not fussy and can usually live with a bit of clutter, and if anything, tends to get annoyed when I complain about his stuff lying around.
I was pretty much a stay-at-home mom for years, though I did a bit of occasional free-lance work, and also a lot of volunteering at the schools and in the community so I was out of the house quite a bit. And I always loved spending time with the kids and taking them to the zoo, museums, and all sorts of "field trips" - so that kept us busy.