We all live in a real world that we interpret statements and posts within. You have had the incendiary and painful nature of your post explained to you. If you honestly did not intend the implication, you should have apologized and re-written it to avoid the implication. If you choose not to based on the principle that you don't apologize for stepping on someone's foot by accident, that reflects poorly on you.You mean that more is communicated in your imagination than in anything I actually wrote. You are reading in meaning that you want to be there and are enraged by what you've conjured.