LOL. You know the good thing about the whole trans-acceptance issue with men becoming women? Women drivers are a whole are getting better. It is not that biological women can't turn into good drivers. Keep that in mind if you are a good driver and see a woman turning.
If I were a "nice guy", I wouldn't have the family I do. Make no mistake, I worship my wife. She is out of my league and more than I deserve, but it is because she is extraordinary. I've mentioned this many times, but my wife is a scientist. She is also a stunner. Her mom competed for Ms. California and her brother was a male model, but she refused that path saying she wasn't anyone's piece of meat. She has had multiple stalkers, some serious enough that police got involved. It is her being in my life that allows me to see clearly how ridiculous most women are. That girl didn't say 'yes' because I was nice.
Sorry if it breaks your image of women, but AOC, MTG, and Jasmine Crockett are above average women. They are above average enough to be elected to Congress. Most women are less than the above average women.
If you are still single, I wish you luck, but I also know that I've made it harder for you because I've already got the best one. I will give two words of advice for those still trying to find their one. First, don't be nice but also don't be cocky. You can't win a girl with how you treat her, but you can lose a girl that way. To win a girl you have to ask what a bower bird would do. To keep a girl means you have to be a bower bird over, and over, and over for as long as you want to keep her. My second word of advice is to not skip the first step and take a girl who accepts you as a not a bower bird. That is the path to divorce and ruin.
Good luck out there Hillcrest.