I would guess my idea of what is "successful" may yet come into fashion. But judging from my sis-in-law Chinese-Now-American, it has a lot to do with the house, the job, and the vacation time. My brother goes "home" to China every other year for two months.
I hear about the cars, too. Buick, man, Buick. That's the craze in China.
And they have their own border crisis, too. North Koreans lining up on the border to work in China at high wages. . . . .