I never got welcomed.

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Hate to be that guy, but I have to wonder if this board has an issue with anti-smurfitism.
I don't think I could, or would want to, maintain that JazzFanz is real life or anything like it. The laws of the nether world are not in force here, necessarily, except at the discretion of the owners of the site, and whatever arbitrary coercions the minions of the state care to invoke either conceptually or in concrete actions, which are of no concern to me, personally.
You can create your own realities in your imagination all you want. I don't know what a smurf is, but if you're one, I'm agin it, at least on principle or in argument, although I will be your friend, too. Which is to say I am ecstatic to have you on board so I can draw you in, like a fisherman. . . . what's the net term for being a "fisher of men". . . . troll, or something like that?. . . . in literally thousands of little petty debates on points real people don't have the time to discuss. With me, it's "The more the merrier". Welcome, whoever you are. . . .
Welcome to my parlor, said the spider to the fly. . . . .
seriously.
All I ask is please don't be a second-class citizen or let anyone intimidate you. If you've never done it before in your life, make this the place where you take your stand, and stand like a real human. Enforce all your human rights with unassailable dignity and good manners, and never let anyone put you down successfully. Human rights are not respected until you claim them, and stand for them, anywhere, anytime, in any legal system, or in any state.
That all said, at first take I'll assume anyone who is crying about others being anti-anything or concerned about others having any prejudicial or unkind sentiments must be, a priori, in a prostate stance with a severe case of mental paralysis, sort of huddled in a state of psychological addiction to victimization. How can anyone with a good functional mind and self-esteem really give a rat's arse about what other people think, anyway?