Would you also defend the use of the n-word on the basis of "I wasn't using the word as a slight on those who are actually of african descent?"
I would. Much like SimpleFool, I also use terms like, "What's up my *****?", "Yo ho, knee grow!", and "***** please!" when I talk to my friends on a regular basis. I call them gay whenever they do something that seems gay to me, or they are being lame. I call them retarded when they are acting stupid. That being said, I have ZERO issues with black people, gay people, or mentally challenged people. I just like using those words.
*I'm not trying to stir anything here, and hope I don't get in trouble for using the actual terms which may be in the filter in order to prove my point.*