There isn't anyone like me.
I can imagine how a lot of stupid people do stupid things, but I don't care to assign uninformed innocence and exonerate stupidity. "Easy" girls might be lots of fun on the red hill or black ridge backroads in the back seat of your chevy or even in your van, but still "an overzealous teenage boy with a hair trigger" isn't all that ready to take her home to Mama for Sunday dinner, either. So, it happens to "naïve, passive" girls and girls who don't think things through all the time, no matter whether naïve or not. That's why, if kids had responsible parents and none of the "morals" pedaled by public schools, and "hairtrigger" teen boys had to consider the implications of a shotgun wedding, society would have less of these events.
Obviously, you're an intolerant person yourself with your hairtrigger negs.
black and white is never very simple. It takes good sense to admit there's a right or better way. It takes stuff like integrity, good judgment, and an actual good education to see the difference. People who refuse to see the difference aren't simple either. The whole syndrome of dishonest and irresponsible denial of the obvious truth arises, generally, from confused rationalization. A lot of hard work goes into being that stupid or that dishonest, or that irresponsible, or that immature, or that "sophisticated", as some wish to call it.