Probly cause you're already in town.
I work pretty close to my house, about 5 miles away. There is a large shopping center less than 1/2 mile from my house (Jordan Landing).
It'd be one thing if sometimes she had gone out to get food and had some waiting for me, or made food, or whatever. That's not the case. It's not like 4 out of 5 times she's taken care of it and I'm complaining about the one time I have to do something.
There are times when she goes out and gets food for herself and our kid. Sometimes if she doesn't eat all of hers she'll offer me the leftovers.
But then she's perfectly comfortable asking me to pick something up for all of us when she hasn't left the house all day.
And if she spent any time like cleaning the kitchen or anything else at all I wouldn't complain, but working six days a week I'm the only one in my house who has done a load of dishes in the last two months. And typically I'm doing the dishes easily 10:1 or 20:1, it's hard to say. It's not like she never ever ever does the dishes, but I'd say it's less than 10 times a year.
And I've shown some of the cooking I do. I make my own lunches for the week and I also usually make a from scratch family dinner every weekend. If she makes dinner it's usually for her and our kid while I'm at work and it's Ragu spaghetti sauce and noodles or something from the freezer.
Do I throw fits and act like a jerk to her? No, I make a post in the stupid pet peeves thread and move on with life. But you act like I'm an angry person just nitpicking every little thing.
I let all this **** slide. All I do is make a post in this thread about the certain things that I don't like. That's how angry I am.
If you knew me you'd know I'm a positive person and generally pleasant to be around. The people I've worked closest with have always enjoyed working with me.
This thread is my therapy.