fishonjazz
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Good post but i disagree with the part i quoted. I have a mexican co-worker named victor. Literally everytime he greets me he says and i quote "wassup homie g?, You're my boy"Calling a black person a boy or heck even a white man is disrespectful. Any adult should know it.
I never feel disrespected by that term of endearment.
It seems that the biggest thing that i have learned recently is that i am expected to have an inherent knowledge of what is and isn't offensive to every black person on planet earth since i am a white man. I obviously dont possess this knowledge so Im thinking the proper thing to do would just be to avoid interaction with black people as much as possible. Well other than the couple of black people that I already have an established relationship with for the past 15 years or so. Our relationships were established long ago before the age of offense we currently reside in and therefore would definitely give me the benefit of the doubt if i unintentionally said something offensive to them. Someone I dont have a relationship with already might not give me that benefit of the doubt so maybe avoidance is the best action.
What if many white people are feeling this way? Would that lead to more segregation and less interaction and therefore more racism? Is there any possible way that teaching people how to be less offended could lead to better communication and relationships? Idk, just a thought that will certainly get flamed.