IMO.. of what I know of you.. you desire a woman that is more simple and loves you more than your things. It's a paradigm shift, possibly.
Yup that's absolutely right, but to first get them through the door do you not need to 'entice' them? I don't know I have been single for a while now and not really in with the game.
It's like you can have the most delicious candy, but if the wrapping is ugly...