We are having another child. We will know the gender next week but we are fairly certain(cycles and what not) that it is a boy. I really feel that circumcision equates to genital mutilation and won't be doing it. When I was talking to my family about it(we're all cut)most of them were horrified that we plan on not doing it.
Is there any scientifically verifiable medical reason to do it, and if so then why don't we see serious complications with uncircumcised wee wees in Europe?
These national medical organizations are all against infant circumcision:
Canadian Paediatric Society
https://www.cps.ca/en/documents/position/circumcision
"Recommendation: Circumcision of newborns should not be routinely performed."
https://www.caringforkids.cps.ca/handouts/circumcision
"Circumcision is a 'non-therapeutic' procedure, which means it is not medically necessary."
"After reviewing the scientific evidence for and against circumcision, the CPS does not recommend routine circumcision for newborn boys. Many paediatricians no longer perform circumcisions."
Royal Australasian College of Physicians
https://www.racp.edu.au/index.cfm?objectid=65118B16-F145-8B74-236C86100E4E3E8E
" After reviewing the currently available evidence, the RACP believes that the frequency of diseases modifiable by circumcision, the level of protection offered by circumcision and the complication rates of circumcision do not warrant routine infant circumcision in Australia and New Zealand."
(almost all the men responsible for this statement will be circumcised themselves, as the male circumcision rate in Australia in 1950 was about 90%. "Routine" circumcision is now *banned* in public hospitals in Australia.)
British Medical Association
https://bma.org.uk/-/media/Files/PDFs/Practical advice at work/Ethics/Circumcision.pdf
"to circumcise for therapeutic reasons where medical research has shown other techniques to be at least as effective and less invasive would be unethical and inappropriate."
The Royal Dutch Medical Association
https://knmg.artsennet.nl/Diensten/...rapeutic-circumcision-of-male-minors-2010.htm
"The official viewpoint of KNMG and other related medical/scientific organisations is that non-therapeutic circumcision of male minors is a violation of children's rights to autonomy and physical integrity. Contrary to popular belief, circumcision can cause complications - bleeding, infection, urethral stricture and panic attacks are particularly common. KNMG is therefore urging a strong policy of deterrence. KNMG is calling upon doctors to actively and insistently inform parents who are considering the procedure of the absence of medical benefits and the danger of complications."
More opposition to circumcision of children:
https://www.crin.org/resources/infodetail.asp?id=31830
"[30 September 2013] - At a meeting today in Oslo, the children's ombudspersons from the five Nordic countries (Sweden, Norway, Finland, Denmark, and Iceland), and the children's spokesperson from Greenland, in addition to representatives of associations of Nordic paediatricians and pediatric surgeons, have agreed to work with their respective national governments to achieve a ban on non-therapeutic circumcision of underage boys."
German Pediatric Association
https://www.intactamerica.org/german_pediatrics_statement
(very long, but very much against circumcision, and includes the following)
"Therefore it is not understandable that circumcision of boys should be allowed but that of girls prohibited worldwide. Male circumcision is basically comparable with FGM types Ia and Ib that the Schafi Islamic school of law supports"
https://pediatrics.aappublications.org/content/early/2013/03/12/peds.2012-2896.abstract
"The other claimed health benefits, including protection against HIV/AIDS, genital herpes, genital warts, and penile cancer, are questionable, weak, and likely to have little public health relevance in a Western context, and they do not represent compelling reasons for surgery before boys are old enough to decide for themselves."
(signed by 38 senior physicians, about half of them presidents or chairs of national pediatric or urological organisations).
Drops in male circumcision since 1950:
USA: from 90% to 55%
Canada: from 48% to 17%
UK: from 35% to about 5% (about 1-2% among non-Muslims)
Australia: 90% to 12.4% ("routine" circumcision has recently been *banned* in public hospitals in all states)
New Zealand: 95% to below 3% (mostly Samoans and Tongans)
South America and Europe: never above 5%
Things can go badly wrong too. The record payout for a botched circumcision is $22.8 million. It was said at the time that the victim "will never be able to function sexually as a normal male and will require extensive reconstructive surgery and psychological counseling as well as lifelong urological care and treatment by infectious disease specialists."
Sure, cases like that are very rare, but why should they happen at all? If you look up the galleries of botched jobs, one thing that may surprise you is just how many jobs were botched cosmetically, rather than medically. Skin tags, skin bridges, sideways curvature, and hair growing half way up the shaft are not normal, but would not be counted as medical complications.
News from April 2009: A jury in Atlanta has awarded $1.8 million to a boy whose penis was severed in a botched circumcision five years ago. The Fulton County jury also awarded the boy's mother another $500,000.
This WHO document talks about the risks of neonatal circumcision:
https://whqlibdoc.who.int/publications/2010/9789241500753_eng.pdf
Table 7.2. Potential complications of the three most commonly used infant male circumcision devices (p 51)
For those with a strong stomach, it also has graphic pictures of botched jobs (p57 Mogen, p66 Gomco, pp73-75 Plastibell).
It's worth remembering that no-one except for Muslim and Jewish people would even be having this discussion if it weren't for the fact that 19th century doctors thought that :
a) masturbat1on caused various physical and mental problems (including epilepsy, convulsions, paralysis, tuberculosis etc), and
b) circumcision stopped masturbat1on.
Both of those sound ridiculous today I know, but that's how they thought back then, and that's how non-religious circumcision got started. If you don't believe me, then check out this link:
https://www.noharmm.org/docswords.htm
Heck, they even passed laws against "self-pollution" as it was called.
It's not like it can't wait - there are just two countries in the world where more than 50% of baby boys are circumcised: the USA (at 55%) and Israel. Other countries circumcise, but generally anywhere from the age of seven to puberty or late adolescence.
Here's another reason not to do it to newborns:
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/23656698
"For studies including boys born after 1995, there was a strong correlation between country-level (n = 9) autism/ASD prevalence in males and a country's circumcision rate (r = 0.98). A very similar pattern was seen among U.S. states and when comparing the 3 main racial/ethnic groups in the U.S."
If our son wants to be circumcised when he's 18 (16 if he knows what he's doing), I'll pay for it and help him find a good surgeon. Until then, he stays intact. His body - his decision. If he wants to be circumcised later, it's easy to fix - safer, less painful, and better cosmetic results. If we'd had him circumcised, and he wanted to be intact, it's a problem.