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Court: California gay marriage ban is unconstitutional

There's a big difference between holding an opinion and advocating that point of view and using the force of law to deny people the ability to exercise their own free will.

I'm sure you see pitfalls in the use and abuse of alcohol. Yet it is legal. The experiment in prohibition was a disaster. Letting people do as they please, even though it is bad for the rest of us, actually has better results than trying to force everyone to "live right."

Changing laws will not deny people the ability to exercise their own free will. They can still make whatever choices they want, it just will not be recognized by the government as marriage.

God makes laws and people are free to obey them or not obey them. If you disobey the law you are not able to receive the blessing and you are also open to any consequence that is attached to that law. You are still free to choose.
The law is a line drawn in the sand. People are still free to cross that line.
There is no forcing everyone to live right, it is just a standard that should be set.
Make the choice, but don't cry about the results.

People just want God to change where that line is drawn.
God will not change that, but people sure can attempt to get their government to change where they draw that line, and that is what is happening.
 
Maybe we can agree to disagree on this then. I know there are plenty of negative things going on with marriage, and as I stated in prior posts I think it all stems from the selfishness that is so prevalent in today's world. For the most part I'm not disagreeing with you on this, other than that I still see homosexual marriage as a whole as a negative for society. I see many issues with heterosexual marriage as a negative for society as well, but that's not the topic of this thread.

I am ok with that.

On a side note I think defending marriage is a very noble goal. I just think requiring marriage classes and gettign rid of drunken strip weddings as a better way of doing that.
 
I am ok with that.

On a side note I think defending marriage is a very noble goal. I just think requiring marriage classes and gettign rid of drunken strip weddings as a better way of doing that.

Those ideas could help as well. Of course anyone that doesn't want to get anything out of a marriage class will not. I'm with you wholeheartedly on the drunken strip weddings.

I had better get some work done today.
 
Those ideas could help as well. Of course anyone that doesn't want to get anything out of a marriage class will not. I'm with you wholeheartedly on the drunken strip weddings.

I had better get some work done today.

We have made it this far so why start working now?
 
Those ideas could help as well. Of course anyone that doesn't want to get anything out of a marriage class will not. I'm with you wholeheartedly on the drunken strip weddings.

I had better get some work done today.

True but I am hoping that it would weed out a few more of the people that really should not be getting married.
 
...to force governments to recognize their relationship as a marriage.

You want government out of the drug busting business and government involved in the homosexual relationship business. That doesn't make sense to me.

Government shouldn't be in the marriage business. They should be in the contract enforcement business. Marriage is nothing more than a contract as far as the government is concerned. The government doesn't give sanction to marriage as a spiritual bond.

Government is currently in the homosexual relationship regulation business. I want them out!
 
Government shouldn't be in the marriage business. They should be in the contract enforcement business. Marriage is nothing more than a contract as far as the government is concerned. The government doesn't give sanction to marriage as a spiritual bond.

Government is currently in the homosexual relationship regulation business. I want them out!

That hasn't been your position to this point in the thread.

The pursuit of this overturning of prop 8 will just lead to replacing the state government with the federal government as the relationship regulators for all. It will lead to the exact opposite of what you just stated you wanted. Currently homosexuals can pursue a "spiritual bond" marriage all they wish. That doesn't seem to be enough for them. They still insist that a state that doesn't want to be involved in their relationship must be involved, and now the feds will take over state rights to regulate marriage and push President Santorum to pursue a constitutional amendment.

Government gives sanction (<--TAXES) to marriage as an environment for raising new citizens that will pay your social security.
 
That hasn't been your position to this point in the thread.

The pursuit of this overturning of prop 8 will just lead to replacing the state government with the federal government as the relationship regulators for all. It will lead to the exact opposite of what you just stated you wanted. Currently homosexuals can pursue a "spiritual bond" marriage all they wish. That doesn't seem to be enough for them. They still insist that a state that doesn't want to be involved in their relationship must be involved, and now the feds will take over state rights to regulate marriage and push President Santorum to pursue a constitutional amendment.

Government gives sanction (<--TAXES) to marriage as an environment for raising new citizens that will pay your social security.

I don't value state government getting involved in social matters any more than I value the federal government getting involved. The federal government SHOULD override state governments when the states attempt to violate individual rights. That's what a ban on gay marriage is, a violation of individual rights. I think individuals should be able to associate with one another in any consensual way they choose, provided all parties are legally able to consent.

I don't think there should be tax breaks for marriage, or any other behavior. Taxes shouldn't be used to promote favorable behavior, or to discourage unfavorable behavior. That's not what I want my government doing. As it stands, however, married people do get preferential treatment in several ways. That only makes it even more unacceptable that all people aren't able to gain those benefits.
 
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