Packer also talked about looking at porno is a sin and is bad. How does that make people feel that look at porn? Probably bad, unless they don't believe in the church and its teachings. Does knowing that people may feel bad keep Packer from delivering his message? No. Does it mean it was a speech that was going to lead to hate towards those that look at porn? No.
Jesus Christ taught us to be "perfect" even as to him. Since no one in the world is perfect, do you think Jesus was teaching something that's going to lead to hate? I mean, he pretty much called everyone out on something that can't be accomplished, right? People feel bad all the time because they "sin" or aren't "perfect", but Jesus wasn't a hateful speaker. Same thing with Packer and his speech.