I'm very sorry to hear that. That's a lot to deal with anytime. My condolences to you and your family. You have my deepest sympathy. Let us know if we can help in any way.Full disclosure, and this is not something I've mentioned here yet: My son (31 yrs old) died 2 weeks ago. We had to go to a viewing and the cremation. In Seattle. Last Monday. We just got back on Wednesday. My 84 years old father came with us. I am absolutely terrified that he caught it up there.
Also, the memorial is being delayed, because... well, of course it is.