7StraightIsGreat
Well-Known Member
Just because it is external does not mean it is without risk. Also, appendix removal is outpatient surgery, is done arthroscopically now, and has basically no side effects outside of the possibility of infection, which is also present in circumcision. So compare it to tonsils then if you would like another comparison that is less invasive. Point is there is almost never any medical reason for a circumcision.
I don't know about it being the parent's choice. I have mixed feelings about this. If there is no medical need then why should it be viewed as anything besides mutilation just because it is not "invasive". Should the parent's be allowed to choose to physically alter any other part of their baby's anatomy for no reason? If I don't like my kid's ears, should I be allowed to have them cut off or maybe just modified so they look better to me? After all they are not really necessary, the hearing part is internal. Should it be the parent's choice to bifurcate the kid's tongue so he can be the snake-man like that cool guy on TV?
Also, I don't know about the other parents here but in my case the decision for my first son came to me in the form of :
Nurse: "Mr. Grad, I know you and your wife just went through 30 hours of labor and an emergency c-section, but you need to sign this so we can circumcise your son."
Me: "Huh, what? Are you the nurse?"
Nurse: "Yes. You need to sign this if you want us to proceed with the circumcision."
Me: "Sign what? Oh ok I guess."
And don't think there are no adverse outcomes in circumcision. I can tell you 2 stories that would probably change your mind on the whole thing (well it did mine) and one of them is very close to me personally. Let's just say we ended up really regretting the decision to circumcise our younger son. The other case almost ended with a child losing his, uh, member. It was bad. With risks like that and literally no reward, why have it even as an option?
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You know, I knew I was not in favor of it, and would tell people not to do it, but I honestly did not know I felt that strongly about it until I started writing about it here. I guess I am very much against the practice and would support a law making it just as illegal as any other mutilation for reasons other than medical necessity.
I see where you're coming from, but where we part ways is the idea of making it illegal. There's doctors on both sides of the fence on whether or not there is benefit to it, but statistically I believe you're actually more likely to collect bacteria and get an infection with an uncircumcized *****. Granted, if you wash your ***** (really, really good) it probably won't matter anyway.
I also understand your point that infant circumcision isn't without chance of complication, but the complication sounds greatly increased the older you get.
Again, I don't really disagree with you on most of your points, but trying to make it illegal seems very heavy-handed to me.