(My biggest issue is with "recreational abortion" as a form of birth control when a couple choose not to use any kind of birth control, and then afterward just figure they can kill the baby because it is so inconvenient that their choice to have sex actually had the intended consequence of the act.)
This is an intellectually dishonest boogeyman. Abortion is not pleasant for the woman either. There is no evidence beyond the anecdotal that "recreational abortion" is a real problem.
If anyone cares: I think everyone here is engaging in moral arguments. That's fine. I'm not in a good position to tell someone they should have a different system of morality (as screwed up as I may think there's may be). My support for rights to choose is based entirely in practicality and it comes down to a few quick bullet points:
1. Making abortion illegal doesn't stop abortion; it just makes it less safe, more expensive, and significantly class triggered.
2. There are significant secondary social effects that are highly costly to society as a whole that result from the elimination of abortion rights.
3. Referring to procreation as the sole reason to have sex is contrary to all human experience and certainly denies the existence of entire industries.