You just don't listen, do you? How can you say I'm not claiming to be American or not American, to be white or not white if I just said this:
Perhaps you are not a native English speaker. When you use the phrase, "if I'm ... ?", you are indicating a hypothetical. In the context of saying that I am making an assumption, in particular, you're saying that I don't know, not making a claim to be something or not be something.
How much clearly do I have to state that I'm not white nor American?
Do it without making it a hypothetical. For example, had you said 'since if I'm not white nor American', that would have been a clear claim. Maybe it's a translation issue. At any rate, I see you made a clear claim below, so I accept that you are not white and not American.
Does your "privilege" demands for me to produce some kind of document to prove that?
1) I don't really care, and am not making any demands on you.
2) If you made a simple declarative statement, instead of couching your language in conditionals or as tangents to questions, I believed you. I have no reason to not believe you.
3) Why would you care if some random guy on the internet believes you anyhow?
Why should I have to go to a message board trying to prove my ethnicity or my nationality?
You don't.
Why should I have to prove my ethnicity or nationality to have an opinion about something?
Did you have an opinion besides 'I want to talk'?
You sure are making this board feel very welcoming to POC and foreigners with your attitude.
From the guy who says tone doesn't matter?
I never said that no one should tell me to listen, I clearly stated that my stance is "no one should tell anyone to shut up" I'm not against listening, I'm against silencing. You are deliberately twisting my words to fit what you already made up in your mind.
You mean, the way you took "shut up and listen" to mean you were not allowed to talk? Good listening is active listening.
You just read something and you racey sense started tingling so you decided to show that "whiny white American" who's who in this board, the problem is the whiny is not white, nor American.
I fully accept that the whiny is not white nor American.
Now, instead of graciously backpedaling on your stance, you accuse me of lying.
Generally, a statement preceded by an "Maybe ... " in response to one preceded by "If .... " requires no backpedaling.
As a non white, non American person I feel tempted to state that your attitude is very racist and xenophobic itself, but I'm sure it's just a product of you being so full of ****.
Either could be true.
Oh, and I never said that tone doesn't matter in a conversation, i said that tone doesn't change the content of the message. Again, learn to listen, or at least learn to read.
Thank you for the kind advice. I will disagree; tone can absolutely alter the content of a message. I see it in conversations every day.
With all that said, there is still that fact that my responses seem to have hurt your feelings. I apologize that my responses to you did not sufficiently reflect what you intended to convey. In the future, I will be careful to ask you what you actually mean in your responses.