Nope, you sure don't have to listen. I have no reason to think that Stoked Is-Not-A-Racist-Interracial-Family-Hates-No-One will ever be willing to have a rational discussion on the topic, and will instead refer to all such attempts as lambasting. I have no reason to think Stoked Is-Not-A-Racist-Interracial-Family-Hates-No-One will care to understand any point at all on racism, because all Stoked Is-Not-A-Racist-Interracial-Family-Hates-No-One wants us to know is that Stoked Is-Not-A-Racist-Interracial-Family-Hates-No-One thinks he doesn't have a problem. So, I don't even make a serious attempt to discuss this with Stoked Is-Not-A-Racist-Interracial-Family-Hates-No-One (as I've mentioned before) anymore. I'm quite content pointing out that Stoked Is-Not-A-Racist-Interracial-Family-Hates-No-One is not interested in having a genuine discussion.