The difference to me is that what I believe about my religious views gives me answers to why I am alive, and the point of why I am here, and helps me identify what I am trying to accomplish in life. The other things are things to do while I am alive, but are peripheral items that are experienced in life while not being integral to my life. To me there is nothing sacred about politics, sports, or music taste, but there is something sacred about my religion to me. This is the difference, and why I might stand up for something that has to do with my religion or something I find to be sacred.
If I know someone I am conversing with finds music to be sacred to them, then I will do my best not to offend them by saying something I know will be offensive to them. That's just courtesy that should be common, and has less to do with religion as it does with respect for others.
You comparing religion to sports does not bother me, most things either don't bother me, or I let them go. As to judging what someone thinks is sacred, that's not the point. It's about respecting other people around you. I don't care if you find toe jam to be sacred to you, I will try to respect you about it even if I think that it is silly, or dumb.
You choose not to offend your friend or girlfriend because you respect them. You choose to not filter words that will offend other people because you do not respect those people. What happened to the days when respect was common and had to be lost, similar to the whole "innocent until proven guilty" idea. This point is not to you specifically but about Americans in general.
Thoughts lead to words, and words lead to actions. If we know about racists, anti-Semites, or we don't stand up for issues we think are important... are we showing implicit agreement to the other side. Racists need to be called on their words and actions and held accountable otherwise they may see it as you agree. Too many Americans are apathetic to involvement in things, and making stands for things for the most part. Less and less people go to vote, and less and less people let their representatives know what they feel. This is part of why minority groups get what they want, they speak up, and they are loud... and even if the majority does not agree, if they do nothing the minority group gets their way. I understand not stressing over things that don't matter that you disagree with, but at some point we need to stand up and be heard about the things that do make a difference and do matter.
That was just my soapbox based on some things you said, it's not really directed at you.
I do enjoy communication and conversation, and I enjoy jokes and fun too. I just hope we can have more respect, and stand up for what we believe is important. I can respect some of the posters on this board that stand up for things like legalizing mary jane, or some of the other things that I don't agree with. I may not agree with them, but I can respect them.
I don't know that that puts us at odds .. I didn't really read it. I know. That makes me a bad person.
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Must have been in the woods with nobody around to hear it.
Made me laugh.
Also how come nobody has brought up how this effects Hayward, I mean when they close the session with "amen" does he say thank you? Does he get embarrassed or shy, or is he so humble he just remains silent. I think this is what is being missed in the article and should really be discussed.
The article says that half the players go to the chapel. How does that bring the team together? Half and half don't, that sounds like division to me, splitting the team in half.
Why do the the wishes and feelings of the non-believers get ignored? Why should religion and its practice have anything to do with a basketball team? Do these guys not have enough time to get their religion on their own time? There is always a subtle exclusionary aspect to these sorts of things: "Oh, you don't believe in the Lord Jesus Christ as your Savior?" How do you counter that without being offensive?
The old line is to avoid confrontations do not discuss religion or politics. I think the same ought to apply to the workplace: there is no room there for religious practices. Do it on personal time and leave it at home.
I heartily disagree.
Good for you.And i heartily disagree with you sir.
Thoughts lead to words, and words lead to actions. If we know about racists, anti-Semites, or we don't stand up for issues we think are important... are we showing implicit agreement to the other side. Racists need to be called on their words and actions and held accountable otherwise they may see it as you agree. Too many Americans are apathetic to involvement in things, and making stands for things for the most part. Less and less people go to vote, and less and less people let their representatives know what they feel. This is part of why minority groups get what they want, they speak up, and they are loud... and even if the majority does not agree, if they do nothing the minority group gets their way. I understand not stressing over things that don't matter that you disagree with, but at some point we need to stand up and be heard about the things that do make a difference and do matter.
I used to think this way when I was younger, too. Not all battles are mine to fight. We have a board member here who spouts of racist stuff on regular basis, even though I sometimes suspect that much of it is with his tongue planted firmly in his cheek. If I wasn't a long time reader of this board (and of a series of old ones), I might assume that everyone around here is a racist because they do not bother to correct him or stand up to him much. Worse yet, I may stretch that and assume that stereotypes about Utahns and Mormons are true.
Or I can just look at the fact that he has 2,143 posts and nearly every one of them has something prejudiced in it. If I criticized him every time he called someone a hopper, I'd have 2,144 posts. And I just don't have that kind of time. There are other things in life I ought to save my outrage for. Like the fact that Thompson and Cousins will probably have 20 offensive rebounds between them tonight.
I suppose we agree in theory, just disagree on the practical implementation. Welcome to my life as an educator.![]()