It's not that I can't do it it is that I haven't managed to(yet hopefully). I know it sounds like semantics but I feel it is an important distinction.
I can it's just difficult.
A person that is diabetic has the responsibility to monitor their blood sugar, a person that has intense allergic reactions has the responsibility to carry an epi-pen, a manic-depressive to take their medication and see a therapist(if necessary), and an addict to take whatever steps may be necessary to manage their addiction. It isn't easy but I would never deny someone the dignity of hope and the ability to overcome by fatalistic statements or by relinquishing them of their responsibility.
I see what you're saying, and agree to some degree. I just don't see it as relinquishing them of their responsibility though. Unless someone is trying to kill themselves by OD'ing, then I just don't agree. If they could stop, they probably would. I doubt this dude wanted to flush 20+ years of sobriety on a whim.