I am married and if I was married to one of my guy freinds instead of my wife then my life would be entirely different.
-I would not have my daughter nor would having offspring be an option.
-How I have sex would be totally opposite.
-Living with a woman is complete opposite of living with a male roomate
-I would not argue about me watching too much sports
-etc etc etc
Me being married to a man would litereally make my life do a full 180. I dont know how that is a shock or a surprise for people.
Your post really has nothing to do with what I was saying, but it's never crossed your mind that not everyone wants to live their life the way you do?