As another piece of advice that was alluded to earlier-- pick your battles. And have the punishment fit the "crime". If it's something small, have the punishment be something small... because if/when something serious happens you need to have a place to escalate to.
My current cure when someone comes to tattle (the favorite past time of my 9 year old) for something stupid and minor is “handle it yourself”).
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