They can’t admit that trump has been awful. They can’t admit that he’s a threat to our democracy. They just can’t allow people they hate to have been right about Trump.
As I mentioned to you privately, I have a highly intelligent, majored in philosophy, (gotta like the world of the mind to major in philosophy, my kind of guy), close friend, who apparently has been ensnared by the Trump cult of personality.
So we stay away from politics. Wouldn’t you know, the Mrs. let slip the word “Trump” when we bumped into him at a local park last week. The two of us were off to the races. He left, screaming at me, at the top of his lungs: “Donald Trump was the greatest president in history!!”.
I have thought about this incident a great deal. Is my friend “in danger” of hating me? Yes, he is, and I ask myself why? I believe he admires me and considers me an intelligent individual. The anger towards me is precisely because he understands, in the moment, if only below the surface of his conscious mind, that I am in fact reasonably intelligent, and having an opposite opinion of Trump threatens his opinion/beliefs, and he does not want to go there. I become a symbol of the people he hates, and he certainly does not want to hate me. I am a good friend, and have been for years. So he walks away, screaming and angry, and his day is soured.
But I was also raising my voice to him last week. It does distress me to see a friend not realize he has enrolled in a cult. But I am not in danger of hating him. I have voted Republican in many past races. Just not any presidential race.
I do believe, although I would apply this observation only to those truly ensconced in the Cult of Trump, that they embrace and support Trump because he has made it quite clear that he hates the people they hate. I believe a lot of his most close minded supporters are in that position. Trump hates those Americans that they themselves hate. Or fear.
When people are in that position, rapprochement is perhaps at its most difficult.
It seems like all of America is in a similar position. Obviously, we are not all friends. But growing to hate “the other side” sure is not helping. If one accepts the old saw that “politics is the art of compromise”, we’re in tough shape.