You forgot a few major reasons why people hate AK...
1: Complaining about his role during the post game interview after huge wins while everyone is celebrating.
2: Literally crying to the media about his role while the Jazz are in a tough playoff series.
3: Not giving a full effort.
4: Not improving key holes in his game.
5: Openly saying he wanted out of Utah.
6: Holding the franchise hostage and demanding a max contract.
How did you miss these?
Not that your going to agree with me but:
1. I Honestly don't remember him complaining openly after wins like you state, if he did I would like to hear it but I would bet he was bated into the question and he voiced his frustration and even after that your right I wouldn't have liked that.
2. He did literally cry but out of frustration, he cried because he cared and he wanted and knew he should/could help the team, that is better then not caring. But yes I was not a fan of him crying but lots of other players have cried on national TV (AK's was local that turned into national because it was during the playoffs).
3. Ya no argument that there are games he just seems disinterested in (not talking about bad games every player goes through those stretches) and it frustrated me to no end but I could also see he wasn't involved and let his frustration get the better of him. He is a grown man and should've handled it much better.
4. I guess this is one I can say I overlooked myself and that he should've done this and it ties in with #3 as far as being a man and handling the situation better had he improved (weight or jumper) maybe it would've forced the Jazz to do what he was hoping for.
5. I don't remember it in the same context as you, yes that ONE summer after the crying breakdown when asked said he would be open to leaving but never said he didn't like it here just again frustrated how he was being used.
6. Weakest of your arguments, he didn't hold anybody hostage, as was stated already if the Jazz didn't give him the max another team was going to, I also was resigned to the fact he was likely going to get it but wasn't happy about it. I thought as dynamic as he just showed being the face of an overachieving team (42-40) he was just off of being a max type player.