She obviously dated him for his good looks.
Withey accused of domestic violence
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Joncolton
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This speaks volumes.
Ever since the OJ Simpson case, California has passed the strictest domestic violence laws in the country. It is almost impossible for any couple to call the police without one party at least being arrested over night, often both parties are temporarily incarcerated. Even in a lot of baseless cases the police will often arrest a party and push for charges only to have those charges later dropped by the DA. Virtually 90% of all domestic violence arrests in California end up with the district attorney dropping completely or lowering the charges. The cops usually make arrests in these situations largely as a CYA, so that if something does happen later on or eventually - no one can say that the police showed up and did nothing. Again the fact that the police were called, and no arrests were made, and even further no report was even written - speaks volumes.
If she's so concerned about her safety while Withey's in L.A. wouldn't she stay with a friend or leave town? If I were in her shoes (not literally speaking because I would probably trip and fall wearing heels) and if Withey really is a violent guy I would assume pressing charges against him would royally anger him which would only increase the odds of him wanting to harm her.
I'm wondering if he's been in contact with her since the break-up and has been harassing her? If he has, I'm sure she would likely have proof. And if Withey has left her alone then I don't see why she would fear for her safety.
Also, one would think if she wanted to get away from him while she was with him, she wouldn't trash him publicly when he went on the date with another woman but would instead use it as an opportunity to get away from him/dump him. I hope the accusations aren't true and if they are Withey should be charged, but my gut is telling me something isn't right - like she wants to ruin him for cheating on her and she wants him to suffer further.
I'm wondering if he's been in contact with her since the break-up and has been harassing her? If he has, I'm sure she would likely have proof. And if Withey has left her alone then I don't see why she would fear for her safety.
Also, one would think if she wanted to get away from him while she was with him, she wouldn't trash him publicly when he went on the date with another woman but would instead use it as an opportunity to get away from him/dump him. I hope the accusations aren't true and if they are Withey should be charged, but my gut is telling me something isn't right - like she wants to ruin him for cheating on her and she wants him to suffer further.
LifeOnaPlate
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He has a penis and he grew up in California. Probably get conditioned to like the surgically enhanced/playboy bunny look out there.
jimmy eat jazz
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No can do in this case. Sorry to disapoint.
A preferable course in my view is that people (especially men) treat charges of sexual/domestic abuse with the gravity they merit and stop perpetuating the traditional good ol' boy practice of making light of them or attacking/questioning/ridiculing the women (or other people) who make them.
So, instead of me lightening the **** up, why don't you grow the **** up?
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Deleted member 848
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Either Jeff ****ed up and abused this woman, and deserves the punishment coming his way-- or (statistically way smaller chance) Jeff ****ed up by being in a relationship with a woman who would try to get back at him by doing something like this.
We need to keep in mind that statistically the former is much more likely, and either way Jeff ****ed up. Sad situation, hope it ends up in the best of ways for both parties.
We need to keep in mind that statistically the former is much more likely, and either way Jeff ****ed up. Sad situation, hope it ends up in the best of ways for both parties.
Thee Idiotic Minivan K
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Yes, when determining the fate of a man we should rely on statistics. If it's the latter he didn't "**** up".
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The statistics and the way these cases go about implore the importance of believing the victim-- we have seen worldwide the outcome of victim-blaming and it's ugly.
And yes, if you're dumb enough to not see red flags and propose to a woman who out of pettiness would want to torpedo your public image then you're a ****ing moron.
"Summers also logged in to Withey's Instagram and Facebook accounts back in June and posted a photo of herself in a sports bra and thong saying that her boyfriend had been cheating on her and took another woman to the movies."
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/ar...y-four-months-accusing-f-ing-hoes-Tinder.html
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/ar...y-four-months-accusing-f-ing-hoes-Tinder.html
He's good looking? lol
Yes, let's call him a moron for loving someone and things blowing up in his face over mistrust issues.
And you can question the motives and timing without "victim-blaming".
I believe this would be considered good looking by most women, especially considering the fact he is tall as ****.
Cappy_Smurf
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Cappy's personal guarantee is that somebody paid this woman to do this now as a hopeful distraction, or to try and get Jeff temporarily suspended. Don't believe for a minute that this is just attention grabbing.
Kind of funny that somebody in the clips organization or possibly just a wealthy LA fan is this scared of the Utah Jazz. I hope it backfires and Withey comes out does his best Rudy impersonation for 3 straight games.
Kind of funny that somebody in the clips organization or possibly just a wealthy LA fan is this scared of the Utah Jazz. I hope it backfires and Withey comes out does his best Rudy impersonation for 3 straight games.
Cappy_Smurf
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Sorry, but the timing of this is suspect. Also, I hope you never get called for Jury duty.
It was Bolomboy.