Thanks for ruining my thread guys, ****. Honorary negreps to all of you.
Did you really expect it to stay on the original point?
Thanks for ruining my thread guys, ****. Honorary negreps to all of you.
Personally, the color of somebody's skin doesn't matter to me. They still will be asked, "Son. Have you ever killed a man with your bare hands?"
What do you think Junior? You think these hands – they’ve been soaking in Ivory Liquid?
I was just giving a possible reason why women are not bishops.
My view is that you are both confusing and conflating sexism and misogyny and your insistence that misogyny can exist without hatred is contrary to the meaning of misogyny (in both common and academic usage).
Since you have knowledge of the "opinions of the vast majority of people who seriously study the issue," I am sure you are familiar with Princeton's Glick and Fisk and their work on ambivalent sexism and their expressed views that hostile sexism reflects misogyny and benevolent misogyny does not.
Second, the usage I typically see generally means sexism can refer more generally to the harm done to men as well as women, where misogyny narrows that scope to just women (although sexism applies there as well).
One Brow likes to believe that we are all sexist, racist hateful people.
It is in our DNA and is therefore inescapable. I find this line of thinking to be crap.
Your second example that refers to patriarchal religions was not a definition, it was an opinion of one person that was quoted. It could be you quoted there for all I care, it's an opinion, and in my opinion it is wrong.
I in fact did not skip over those other words and in fact included prejudice specifically in my reply, but mistrust and contempt change nothing of what I said.
As for my point of view, from here I see absolutely no hatred, mistrust, contempt, or prejudice (did I miss any?) towards women from me, from the LDS Church/religion/culture.
You cannot or will not see things from another point of view.
How about this... you post what you think my point of view is and why I don't see misogyny in religion or specifically the LDS Church, and I will post to the best of my point of view why you see it. Fair?
Ill start... I'm One Brow
Because I feel that anything other than perfect equality between men and women is a downgrade to one or the other,
anything that men do that women do not do must be a slight to the women, and anything that women do that men do must also be a slight to the women. Because of this inequality there must be some form of contempt, hatred, mistrust, or prejudice in that culture against women, which is by my definition misogyny.
Is that good, or do I need to expound?
Thanks, One Brow for a day.
See, lines like this are what make me sure you can't articulate my views.
I also find that line of thinking to be crap. Straw One Brow says a lot of crap.
First, I am glad that you are saying that misogyny is a subset of sexism (although I could not find that explicitly expressed in the link you provided), which leaves room for the possibility that there could be other possible domains within sexism that are not necessarily misogynistic (which is consistent with all the literature I can find, as well as my personal experience). That has been my main point all along. Where you seemed to contradict this was when you said that "if you have sexism, misogyny will be present"Earlier, I explicitly expressed to you that misogyny was a subset of sexism, which was focused on the behavior detrimental to women.
Very fair. I'll give it a try.
From what I can tell, you see men and women as having fundamentally different emotional natures; that is is the nature of males to not cry and the nature of females to cry; that males are constant and steady while females are more variable and flexible. You see this constancy as an important feature of leadership, so naturally the more constant partner needs to be in charge, whether the husband at home or the male bishop in the church.
First, I am glad that you are saying that misogyny is a subset of sexism (although I could not find that explicitly expressed in the link you provided), which leaves room for the possibility that there could be other possible domains within sexism that are not necessarily misogynistic (which is consistent with all the literature I can find, as well as my personal experience). That has been my main point all along. Where you seemed to contradict this was when you said that "if you have sexism, misogyny will be present"
Wow, that's very far off, as far as I can tell. Not to speak for JazzSpazz necessarily, but that's not at all his viewpoint.
Let me ask you this: under what circumstances would you see a patriarchal group (e.g. a males-only priesthood) as NOT being misogynistic? From what I've read of this thread, you seem to basically consider that a tautology. But maybe I'm missing something.
If, in a given society (I don't know of one where this applies), men were the despised, inferior, don't-be-like-them group, and the priesthood was restricted to males because it was too shameful a position for a woman to occupy, then such a set-up would be genuinely misandrist.
However, we don't live in that society. In another forum, I just saw a moderator repudiate a couple of poster by comparing them to high-school girls, because apparently it's not enough of an insult to say high-schoolers or high-school children.
Nor is the Mormon culture one where women are despised, inferior, don't be like them group.
This reply goes to show that Spazz is right. You will see what you want to see. That is fine but do not attempt to pass it off as anything more than your opinion please.
Yet, insulting men by comparing them to women is so commonplace in this group, I could spend three hours a day just collecting examples.
Again, what makes you think I want to see it this way?
Your replies.
Yet, insulting men by comparing them to women is so commonplace in this group, I could spend three hours a day just collecting examples.
Again, what makes you think I want to see it this way?
My replies certainly describe how I do see it. What makes you think they are not coming from a place of sadness?