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So one more question. Why mormom missionaries are so quick to give up? I remember back in the day I had couple of them knocked on my door. They asked if they can talk to me about god. I was in a bad mood that day and did not have time to go into long discussion so I answered that I do not believe in god and do not wish to talk to them. They left speechless. When I look back now I would have loved for them to come in, sit down, have some tea ( they probably would have refused it) and have a nice long argument about it... Since their goal is to convert other people to their faith I was perfect "sample" for them and yet they where not very interested in trying to convince me to change my mind.
 
So one more question. Why mormom missionaries are so quick to give up? I remember back in the day I had couple of them knocked on my door. They asked if they can talk to me about god. I was in a bad mood that day and did not have time to go into long discussion so I answered that I do not believe in god and do not wish to talk to them. They left speechless. When I look back now I would have loved for them to come in, sit down, have some tea ( they probably would have refused it) and have a nice long argument about it... Since their goal is to convert other people to their faith I was perfect "sample" for them and yet they where not very interested in trying to convince me to change my mind.

I can only speak from personal experience:
When I was on my mission, I didn't try to "convince" anybody to "change their mind". All I did was share my beliefs and ask them to listen with an open mind and heart. If somebody wanted to argue with me about anything, I wasn't interested, as I don't feel that is the best way to bring the feelings of God. If somebody says they don't believe in God, or doesn't want to talk to you about Him, what's the point? I certainly wouldn't have stood there and tried to convince you to talk to me. I would have gone on and found somebody willing to do it without an argument.
 
I can only speak from personal experience:
When I was on my mission, I didn't try to "convince" anybody to "change their mind". All I did was share my beliefs and ask them to listen with an open mind and heart. If somebody wanted to argue with me about anything, I wasn't interested, as I don't feel that is the best way to bring the feelings of God. If somebody says they don't believe in God, or doesn't want to talk to you about Him, what's the point? I certainly wouldn't have stood there and tried to convince you to talk to me. I would have gone on and found somebody willing to do it without an argument.

Thanks for explanation. So is there any % or numbers of converts missionaries are expected to have at the end of their mission? What if you fail to convert a single one - would that be considered a failure? Just out of curiosity did you keep track of the number you converted during your mission?
 
Thanks for explanation. So is there any % or numbers of converts missionaries are expected to have at the end of their mission? What if you fail to convert a single one - would that be considered a failure? Just out of curiosity did you keep track of the number you converted during your mission?

Don't worry you'll get 2nd, 3rd,4th...chance!!

Also you don't have a quota to meet as a missionary, you do keep #'s but there more for record purposes, not bottom line figures!!!
 
So one more question. Why mormom missionaries are so quick to give up? I remember back in the day I had couple of them knocked on my door. They asked if they can talk to me about god. I was in a bad mood that day and did not have time to go into long discussion so I answered that I do not believe in god and do not wish to talk to them. They left speechless. When I look back now I would have loved for them to come in, sit down, have some tea ( they probably would have refused it) and have a nice long argument about it... Since their goal is to convert other people to their faith I was perfect "sample" for them and yet they where not very interested in trying to convince me to change my mind.
I would suggest if you want to discuss religion with the missionaries then just say so next time. I'm not a big fan of the pushy religious types and know many non-LDS that are very turned off by that. To me the missionaries did exactly what you wanted them to but now you complain about it.

FWIW, I'm sure missionaries come in all kinds and those were probably the right kind for you for that time.
 
Thanks for explanation. So is there any % or numbers of converts missionaries are expected to have at the end of their mission? What if you fail to convert a single one - would that be considered a failure? Just out of curiosity did you keep track of the number you converted during your mission?

It would be impossible for there to be a "quota" for baptisms for a missionary. Every person is different, both the missionaries and the people they contact. Also, each area is different in each mission. Plus, some months are just better for getting baptisms. For example, in my mission, December was always a good month for whatever reason.
Every mission is also different. Central and South America are good places for lots of baptisms. I think most of Europe is a lot harder to get baptisms (that's just my guess based on people I have talked to). I would imagine most of Asia is pretty difficult as well.
I think every missionary knows how many people they've baptized while they are out, but that would be for personal reasons.
 
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