Haven't read the entire thread, but I wouldn't care. I'm white and there was a Haitian girl I had a crush on while serving my mission. We talked a lot post mission. She had a thing for me too. My parents knew she liked me and expressed support if I decided to date her.
I also dated a hot Bolivian for a while too and my parents never cared. So...no, I wouldn't care either.i have zero problems with it.
Chicks love that.