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Holy Sloppy, Managed Poorly, No Homework Done, Questions From the Trash - Where's a Building? Thread

I basically made this exact same thread approximately 5 years ago when I was having problems finding a job while in law school. Things do get better even though they are depressing right now.

The best advice I can give having gone through this experience is to be totally openminded about the opportunities that present themselves even if they're not the opportunities that you wanted. My law school roommate really wanted to live in Charlotte after graduation and didn't get a job there, eventually moving to Milwaukee. Blessing in disguise as the Charlotte legal community promptly imploded and everyone we knew who lives there got laid off. I had no intentions of going to Northern California but my first choice law firm in Phoenix has since revealed itself to be something of a cesspool that I would not have survived in. The point of this is that sometimes the options that are handed to you are better than the ones you would have chosen for yourself.

Life will never be perfect but all indications are that you have some nice support structure and family money. This too shall pass and you're in a better position to ride it out than many of your peers. Be thankful for what you have and eagerly accept the next thing that you get.

Good luck, and congratulations on your child.
 
I like more traditional names, rather than cute or trendy names. I personally think a name that is or can be shortened to 4 letters or one syllable is strong and masculine, if that matters to you. Consequently, both of my sons have 2-syllable names that cannot be easily shortened. So you can tell that mothers have a strong influence on baby names. :)
 
LogGrad98 said:
I like more traditional names, rather than cute or trendy names. I personally think a name that is or can be shortened to 4 letters or one syllable is strong and masculine, if that matters to you. Consequently, both of my sons have 2-syllable names that cannot be easily shortened. So you can tell that mothers have a strong influence on baby names. :)
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Oh and please, for the love of all that is holy, stay away from creative name spellings. It just needlessly complicates things and guarantees that the kid will spend the rest of their life saying "no that is with a Y...no at the end....I know it sounds like an E but it is a Y....no spell it like this....no I said at the end". This happens more in girl's names I think, but I have a friend who change her name legally for this reason, but kept it the same name (her name is Emily, but her parents, for whatever reason, thought it was cute to spell it Emeley...I guess they thought "E"s are feminine). It is still the same name, but she normalized the spelling because she got tired of the rigamarole. Sure it looks nifty on the papers you fill out for elementary school, but gets really old the 1000th time the "kid" has to re-spell it for somoene over the phone or in a store or whatever.
 
Archie-

You could name it after your late brother. Just an idea. Not sure how you feel about that. I don't think I would for my brother. Maybe as a middle name but a first name is doubtful. I also like Octavius. A kid from HS (years before me) was Octavius. Octavius Gould. Sick RB. He went to the University of Florida and was a frosh rb the same time as...um..Emmitt Smith...sucked for him so he later transferred.
 
SalmonHobo said:
Archie-

You could name it after your late brother. Just an idea. Not sure how you feel about that. I don't think I would for my brother. Maybe as a middle name but a first name is doubtful. I also like Octavius. A kid from HS (years before me) was Octavius. Octavius Gould. Sick RB. He went to the University of Florida and was a frosh rb the same time as...um..Emmitt Smith...sucked for him so he later transferred.
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His middle name will be after my brother (Clinton/Clint). We are still thinking about names, but as of right now, the front runner is Merrick or Merik. Yeah, I know, old school.
 
Sirkickyass said:
I basically made this exact same thread approximately 5 years ago when I was having problems finding a job while in law school. Things do get better even though they are depressing right now.

The best advice I can give having gone through this experience is to be totally openminded about the opportunities that present themselves even if they're not the opportunities that you wanted. My law school roommate really wanted to live in Charlotte after graduation and didn't get a job there, eventually moving to Milwaukee. Blessing in disguise as the Charlotte legal community promptly imploded and everyone we knew who lives there got laid off. I had no intentions of going to Northern California but my first choice law firm in Phoenix has since revealed itself to be something of a cesspool that I would not have survived in. The point of this is that sometimes the options that are handed to you are better than the ones you would have chosen for yourself.

Life will never be perfect but all indications are that you have some nice support structure and family money. This too shall pass and you're in a better position to ride it out than many of your peers. Be thankful for what you have and eagerly accept the next thing that you get.

Good luck, and congratulations on your child.
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Kicky, thanks man. I do appreciate it.
 
LogGrad98 said:
I like more traditional names, rather than cute or trendy names. I personally think a name that is or can be shortened to 4 letters or one syllable is strong and masculine, if that matters to you. Consequently, both of my sons have 2-syllable names that cannot be easily shortened. So you can tell that mothers have a strong influence on baby names. :)
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I have the most traditional name....errr... most popular boy name in US history (Mike) for the past century so I think we may give him an nontraditional name that's not too far out there.
 
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