And Trout, as much as I appreciate the posrep, it would be so much better if you just came out of hiding and joined the conversation.
I don't think I have an angry approach to the church, I just have an issue with people who regurgitate Sunday school ******** like "It gives me something better to shoot for, than just live, take what you want, and die". Statements like this read as extremely ignorant, condescending and dismissive to me (if you'll permit me to be redundant). If Jazzspazz was just trying to say he's an especially selfish person, who'd be an unrepentant hedonistic ******* without Jesus, I apologize if I responded harshly.
I'm not one to beat around the bush. I recall a visit my parents got from their home teachers when I was visiting them one weekend in Washington (shortly after I stopped attending church, my parents stopped attending). The home teachers asked why they stopped going to church, and they tried to be diplomatic, talking about politics, ward culture, other activities they preferred, etc. When they asked me, I just told them I don't believe in Jesus. I don't want those smiley ****ers, with their pastel polos and khakis, coming back to give me a lame spiritual thought, thinking I'm just going to get over whatever offended me enough to make me leave and come back to church some day. Mormons need to understand that not all people who leave the church do so because they were offended or want to sin. Just more Sunday school ********.