I just think we're applying a standard to risk that our society has never had before.
We never really cared that people were certainly going to die because of behaviors that we all engage in that could be done differently to prevent the vast majority of those deaths.
I disagree. If one drives drunk, one is more likely to be held responsible for an accident, and we tell people all the time to not drive drunk. If you travel mask-less or gather with a large group, you are similarly responsible.