One thing I've learned in dealing with people is. . . . that while I might think I know what I'm saying, almost everybody else is thinking something else.
So I am sometimes inclined to track the feedback and take it seriously. Pearl, you do sound something like I imagine my wife to sound when she feels it's simply insufferable to remain silent, and must tell me what she thinks. I figure it like this. Whatever she says, it means I'm an idiot who must be prevented from wreaking further havoc with the cosmos before it all just unravels and goes poof, and is gone.
Some of the guys in here have wives who aren't able to convey the message to a comprehending husbandly "brain", and for them it just sounds like you're trying to tell them what to think.
which is perhaps the most useless of human pastimes. . . . .
But I do enjoy your skillful retorts to other members of the clueless gender. It means, somewhere out there, perhaps near some distant faint galaxy, there is another husband like me, who probably is a philosopher of sorts, too.