♪alt13
Well-Known Member
I don't think either one of them is a scumbag. I had an abusive stepfather he isn't a scumbag but he wasn't a good stepfather either. I have known multiple people both men and women who have been convicted of domestic violence charges. They aren't scumbags but they did have problems. I think you have to allow people to move forward. Our court system is perfectly capable if not overly so of dishing out punishment.No winners here. Either he's a scumbag or she is or both.
I think the timing really sucks and puts the organization in a can't win scenario... assume guilt and dismiss the guy... tell everyone you need it to play out and then get accused of being pro-abuse
This year man... injuries and bs like this... wasn't supposed to be this way.
I'm sure that both of these people are good people. If Withey hit his fiance he cannot change that now but he can change his actions going forward. Whether or not his fiance was in an abusive relationship it's clear that she made the right decision to break it off. Further if she endured trauma that makes her apprehensive about him being in Los Angeles then she made the right decision to file charges.
Both of these people have some serious s*** to deal with. People should avoid sticking their foot in their mouth.